So You Went Thru Your Better Half’s Cell Phone…

I don’t know if it’s a case of curiosity killing the cat (look it up, it’s an old school saying) or people just not trusting each other but I tell you what…I made August 2010 the last time I ever went thru a man’s phone because when I did, I saw a picture of the ugliest red-haired vagina EVER!  YUCK! Continue reading

What do you do with your WEAKNESSES?

What is weakness?

Do you look at it as a negative thing or a way to challenge yourself to get better?

Are you comfortable enough to look within yourself to identify your weaknesses?

After you acknowledge them, what’s the next step?

Can your weakness strengthen you into a more improved person?

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The Power of Negative -vs- Positive Emotions

Which is more powerful a negative emotion or positive one?

Can a negative emotion impact change faster and with more power than a positive one?

Looking in history at some civil rights leaders were they led by their negative or positive emotion?

Obessed or Determined?

What’s the difference between being Obsessed and Determined?  Is there a fine line or do they overlap?  Are there certain actions or patterns that determine the difference between the two?  Is it OK to be Obsessed with success? 

 When are you considered Obsessive in a relationship?  Do Obsessed people turn into stalkers?

Dating: How long should a phone call last?

Dating: How long should a phone call last?

When you first start dating someone what should be the time limit on your phone conversations? Or should their be a limit?

MEN: Does a woman who talks to much during your first 5 phone conversations turn you off or does that show you she is into you?

WOMEN: If a man isn’t engaging in the conversation besides saying ‘hello’ does that give you the impression you are boring him?

Can’t wait to read these comments.



5 Ways Women Destroy Relationships

10In my opinion, as a hetrosexual male, nothing is more attractive or more sexy than a woman!  Of course everyone has their physical preference, but in general women are beautiful creatures.  Woman are also emotional and passionate Continue reading

From Mama to Dawta and Back Around Again

She sat on the floor, in between her Mama’s knees and got her hair braided.  (Such a sweet little girl.) Her Mama kept telling her “Your Daddy ain’t shyt.  He’s low down and no good.  Men in general ain’t shyt.  Don’t trust ‘em!”  She believed her. Continue reading

The night I got my ass whooped and survived

It was 1991. I went by my homegirl Jackie’s house and we drank some brews and watched the movie Kindergarten Cop and laughed heartily and talked about personal stuff during the commercials and just overall had a blast in each other’s company. Continue reading

Coupon Craziness!!!!


I stood in the Express Line at Wal-Mart the other day.  Not that it was much of an “Express.”  The line was about 10 deep with me at the end.  It inched painfully forward only to have the cashier turn on her light for a price check.   Sighing, I looked over as the lane next to me opened up for a lady who, no joke, had 3 shopping carts full of stuff.    Continue reading

Only read this if you are a WHITE MALE…Only pertains to WHITE MALES!

Image I am writing this blog regarding things that all WHITE MEN already know, but I just want to reiterate it in case some don’t. This does not pertain to women, or members of any other ethnic race.With all the race related Continue reading